Day 27:Sober November

My world has been a whirlwind of events, most good some not so good and that has kept me away from posting something.

November has been an enlightening month in all avenues of my life. Its been filled with introspection and i have gained a new perspective on the present. Being involved in the 31st movement with a large group of other amazing ladies has increased my faith, drawn me closer to God and given me hope (thats for another blog) and the unexpected turn of events in my family has brought us closer and strenthened our bond.


Back to the matter at hand; I was one focused diva and was certain I would easily sail through this challenge until my girls planned a weekend away. Now we all know what that means...lots of partying, travelling and fun. Anothing feels better than sipping on some mojito while watching the sun go down by the pool side.

So I decided to cheat, but this past weekend only as it was such a huge temptation to resist and too fun much fun not to join in.....

DAY 7:SOBER NOVEMBER

I feel like I should have done this a lot earlier really! It’s still early days and considering I might be doing this alone since I’ve already received a drunk dial from the Mr. I’m sure it will be a breeze.

I went out over the weekend and sat in a bar with my friends, who were all drinking, and I made some very hilarious observations. Everyone was bewildered by the fact that I wasn’t drinking and I had enough the offers to take a sip or just have one drink I was almost tempted until I realized this challenge was for me and not them.

I also watched with amusement how every round led to a change in conversation. People got happier and previous dry jokes became very funny; people looking for similarities on the writings of their different beverages and for some odd reason everyone’s eyelids seemed heavier!

In the end I had to act crazy to fit in, building pyramids with empties and pretending to be a bar lady (Lorraine the waitress!). A Sprite and Fanta pineapple later I began to feel the weight of all the humorless banter and decided to call it a night.

So the struggle continues but it’s worth every moment….