My firsts

Ok this post was triggered by my close friend and fellow bloggers post October Madness on what makes her happy. I nipped and tweaked mine a bit and focused on the more current stuff that have made my year so far. I have truly experienced a lot and here goes on my first ever experiences this year:-

·         My first new year’s outside Zimbabwe watching the sunrise with my love and great company

·         Smoked weed! J ( but really it was such a huge disappointment)

 

·         Went to my first lingerie and sex toy show, or what was supposed to be one

·         Lazy pants and aztech print! Ladies can I get an amen to those wonderful, comfortable pants and beautiful print that give us an amazing silhouette

·         Cutting my hair twice in a year

·         Fake lashes which I’m slowly getting addicted to

·         Underarm wax; no pain no gain people

·         Blush and lipstick craze

·         Green tea (I swear by it now)

·         My first seafood dish and it was amazeballs!

·         And most importantly I fell in love J (I know most of you are rolling your eyes but I’m with the most amazing man who has nurtured, inspired and cared for me in a way no other man has and I don’t want any other to…)

All in all it has been a wonderful year and I’ve met amazing people and created timeless memories. I cannot wait to see what more this year has for me.

Sometimes I wish my eyes could take pictures….

True Colours

So this song has been on my mind, on my playlist and has been speaking to me in a different way of late. There is so much fakeness in this world but only a few people know and get to love the real us. so lets show that a little more and spread the radiance we all possess to the rest of the world.....

You with the sad eyes
Don't be discouraged
Oh I realize
It's hard to take courage
In a world full of people
You can lose sight of it all
And the darkness, inside you
Can make you feel so small

But I see your true colors
Shining through
I see your true colors
And that's why I love you
So don't be afraid to let them show
Your true colors
True colors are beautiful,
Like a rainbow

Show me a smile then,
Don't be unhappy, can't remember
When I last saw you laughing
If this world makes you crazy
And you've taken all you can bear
You call me up
Because you know I'll be there

And I'll see your true colors
Shining through
I see your true colors
And that's why I love you
So don't be afraid to let them show
Your true colors
True colors are beautiful,
Like a rainbow


So sad eyes
Take courage now
Realize

When this world makes you crazy
And you've taken all you can bear
You call me up
Because you know I'll be there

And I'll see your true colors
Shining through
I see your true colors
And that's why I love you
So don't be afraid to let them show
Your true colors
True colors, true colors

Cos there's a shining through
I see your true colors
And that's why I love you
So don't be afraid to let them show
Your true colors, true colors
True colors are beautiful,
Beautiful, like a rainbow


Phil Collins~True Colours

A trip down bloomingdale lane

A recent argument I had with some male workmates triggered this post. The argument went a little something like this…. Men are more virile (in bed) in the 20’s and during their midlife crisis phase as compared to women who are late bloomers and enjoy sex in their thirties!

BOLLOCKS!!!!!!!!! I shouted from the highest mountain and made sure I had the final say (it’s a capricon thing, I’ll blame it on the stars!) however when I got home and began to think about it more, it actually made perfect sense.

Boys in their teens and early twenties will hump anything within 2km radius like literally! They will push volumes and go a step further and make it seem like an understatement. They however begin to reason more with their brain than their neither region and calm down.

On the other hand the female counterpart is being drilled from every corner about being virtuoes and upholding values so if she does, she will tread cautiously and will not seek to explore her sexuality fully. This is immensely catapulted by the fact that she is stuck in this whirlwind that her body has many imperfections; her boobs are too small, she’s not thin enough, she’s not light enough, the list is endless. However when she finally realizes this is all a fallacy she then sets out on this quest to make up for all the lost time. She is no longer the giver she is the receiver and she will demand it! She will not hesitate to move on and make sure her needs are met because ‘she loves the skin she is in’ and ‘knows her worth’

The man at this stage is now trying to make money, looking for a wife and family, trying to build and leave a legacy. Total mismatch! Then something happens to the man, his train veers off the rails at such exponential speed and right into the wilderness all one can do is stare with your mouth wide open. He is like an ostrich that had buried its head in the ground for so long protecting himself from the unknown, the future. When he finally gets the YOLO epiphany he’s like a dog in heat, a wild cat that now has the means and resources to pay his way through anything.

Anyway this is my two cents on the issue….lol